Everybody had a little something to say about the Enhle Mbali Mlotshwa scandal involving her alleged married husband. Many were bashing her, making memes and some were surprisingly defending her, while others dragged her past into the scheme of things. For Ntsiki Mazwai, who also always has something to say, she believes there is nothing wrong with having sexual relations with a married man, but on one condition.
Enhle Mbali trended for the past few days on social media after Valentino Bango accused her of cheating with Justice Huni, her husband. People called her names and so forth but she kept to her peace. Ntsiki Mazwai added to the debate on whether it is wrong for women to willingly date married men or not. She believes there is nothing wrong with sleeping with a married man however the wife needs to be aware of it.
“The older you get the more likely it is that a man will be married. For me, personally, I don’t think there’s an issue with sleeping [with] a married man if his wife knows. I have been in relationships where I had a husband and wife. So if we just talk openly as people. When men hit on me and their married, I ask them does your wife know?” she said on Twitter.
“I don’t need a full-time husband, I’m not here to break your home. I don’t want somebody there all the time. I just need the D. So for me it’s not such a big issue as long as the wife knows,” she continued.
Somizi on the other hand believes that the wife cannot instill her moral values onto the side chick, but she can deal with her husband alone.
“When are married women going to accept that the person who broke or breaks their marriage is their partner?” asked Somizi on Instagram.
“The person who owes you loyalty is your husband. The side owes you nothing. Had your husband the backbone to say no, these things would have never happened. You cannot decide what is morally right for the side chick,” he continued.
“I am realistic that they don’t give a sh*t. The person supposed to give a sh*t is your partner … deal with your partner and leave, and leave with your dignity. Please love yourselves more. You shouldn’t be fighting. The minute you have to ask someone to chose between you and the other person, you have already lost”.
Justice Huni defended Enhle and said she got caught up in an unfortunate situation but they did not have a relationship.
“It is with great regret that I have to use social media to address issues pertaining to my personal life. In the past few weeks, allegations were leveled by my wife, about my friend who is also my business associate, Enhle Mbali Mlotshwa. I categorically deny everything stated about Enhle pertaining to the nature of mine and Enhle’s relationship.
“I regrettably understand that my statement could be moments too late and a narrative built already about her, she is one of the boys and covered for me. She does not deserve any of this. I will throughout the process to assist in clarifying any more illegal footage from a significant other. This is a matter that needs to be handled within my household as other issues have been in the past and never has extended to any further to any other third party.”
