Is Generations setting a bad example for women, with Ayanda and Pamela tackling two men? Or is there a lesson there?

These are two powerful, independent women, and they are both depicted as cheats. The two have been married for less than six months. Ayanda is cheating on her new husband. Dali took dinner to Ayanda at work the other night, and her phone rang while Ayanda was “busy” with Nkosiyabo.

A few nights ago, Gog’ Zondiwe found out that Ayanda was being unfaithful to Dali and gave her a stern warning that the outcome would be disastrous.
Ayanda doesn’t seem to be phased about that; she did end things with Nkosiyabo, but for how long?

Viewers wonder what her daughter should learn from this.
Nontle did catch her mother right-handed once in a hotel and never reported her.

Pamela Khoza is now the second woman to be with two men simultaneously.

We know that she has been through a lot losing her husband, but she is juggling two men, and now she is giving these men a set of rules so that she can manage them.

There are similarities between these women.

They are both dating men who know each other. With Ayanda, these men have sworn enemies of each other because Nkosiyabo is always on the wrong side of the law. The difference is that Dali doesn’t know about the affair yet.

Pamela is not married, but she is also dating men who know each other and even share a beer once in a while; Luyolo is also in the dark, but Lelethu isn’t.

The question is, what are we supposed to learn from this?

Ayanda didn’t even take long after getting married to start an affair with Nkosiyabo Cele.
So what about him makes her want to cheat on a good man like Dali Malinga?

Nkosiyabo, the bad boy

Well, Nkosiyabo is a wolf in sheep’s skin; he goes for what he wants and doesn’t apologise for having it.
He is in the advertising industry like Ayanda, and they work in the same office, which makes him familiar to her.
Ayanda is attracted to his strength and how he takes charge in the office. He challenges her in every way.

Dali is a man of the law.

He lives on the right side of the fence, his life is simple, and he gives her security and protection; he enjoys home life with his wife.

Then we go to Pamela.

She finds Luyolo very interesting because he is adventurous and young, and handsome. He has a lot in common with him, but just like Dali, he is calm and stable and enjoys being in a secure relationship.

Lelethu is a rascal.
He is chasing excitement, and he usually goes for what is unreachable; that excites him, just like Nkosiyabo. Lelethu goes with the flow; he is not afraid of a challenge and will do anything to get what he wants.

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